I remember one year, when my parents were moving from Japan back to the states, they decided to combine my birthday party (January) with my brothers' (both in October). It was so awesome to have a big party and to enjoy a sleepover with my friends and to get a lot of awesome gifts and to have triple the number of friends at the party... Islanders, I still remember a lot of my gifts (the life-sized Barbie, a cool hot pink giant lock-shaped safe with a secret combination). It was an awesome birthday... the birthday song with *like* 50 kids was so awesome! If I recall correctly, it was hosted late summer before we relocated in late September. The combined party itself was epic but, when my actual birthday came around several months later, it was a major letdown... I think I may have gotten a cake but it certainly wasn't what I had become accustomed to. No presents, no party, no friends... just a reminder of the epic party hosted months prior.
It was at that moment, my disdain for combined birthdays was born. I prefer not to combine December babies with Christmas or sibling birthdays (unless they're within two weeks) or really anything; I like the idea of giving each birthday honoree his/her due.
Despite my personal experience, I gained a new appreciation for combined birthdays during the planning and execution of a recent co-ed birthday party.
Avery was born on the same day as Mason's first birthday party. Their birthdays are days apart. Their parents share families and friends so, it was natural to combine their birthday parties.
In conversation with Amalia, Avery's mom, she mentioned there were a number of typical themes on the list but the parents decided on a final theme that was unique and different. I got the colors and I offered to make the tags for the favors. I decided to create two separate designs for the favor bags, one for each guest of honor.
The tags read as follows: "It was TUTU sweet of you to come to celebrate Avery turning one!" and "Chugga Chugga Thank you for celebrating Mason turning two!"
I came up with the original wording and design based on a few inspiration images from Ryan, my sis-in-love and Mason's mommy.















